If 2019 was a dry year for you in all the wrong ways, you might want to consider skipping the usual “new year, new me” resolutions and focus on improving your sex life instead. Even if you are looking for a 2020 glow-up, having more sex is a great way to improve your appearance and overall health so you can look as good as you feel. So, how can you have more sex in 2020? Here are five surprising tips that can help:
1. Step Outside of Your Comfort Zone
When it comes to great sex, the only limits you have are the ones you set for yourself, so try to be more open about what you’re looking for on online website. Even if you’re set on the type of partner(s) you’re interested in, expanding your match preferences could open you up to sexual encounters you never thought about. Maybe you’ll meet a sexy couple looking to try new things, or someone who wants to experiment with BDSM. Opening your profile and yourself up to all the sexy possibilities can really increase your chances of hooking up and help you find new ways to feel good.
2. Attend a Sex and Swingers Event
If having sex on the warm beaches of Jamaica sounds good to you, then try an event like Young Swinger’s Week and see what happens! This company hosts events for adventurous couples who want to come together at a private luxury resort to enjoy a week of couple swapping, nude beaches, and amazing sexual encounters with sex positive people. It’s a great way to meet new play partners from all over the world and explore new things you may not have tried otherwise. And if you’re in New York, there are private member clubs like the NSFW that offer adventure for your intimacy that you can explore with your partner.
3. Watch and Be Watched
If you and your partner are looking for ways to spice up your sex life, try having a virtual tryst via Facetime or Skype when you’re apart to keep the fire burning. If you are feeling super adventurous you can even try webcamming together on AdultFriendFinder.com so voyeurs can get a peek into your bedroom and watch as you pleasure each other. This is a great first step for those who might be interested in swinging at some point, and many couples will tell you there’s nothing hotter than making your partner moan as a virtual chat room full of strangers looks on.
4. A Picture is Worth a Thousand Hookups
If your adult dating profile isn’t getting as many bites as you hoped, try uploading photos that show off your personality instead of just your body parts. Everyone loves a good cleavage shot or even a dick pic if the mood is right, but chemistry is what really makes for a great sexual connection. Eye contact, for example, is often the key to seduction, so upload a picture of your face and you could get up to four times more attention than profiles with no face pictures. If you’re not comfortable showing your face on a sex dating site, there are still creative ways to stand out while maintaining the air of mystery. Crop out certain distinguishing features, or try a shot of yourself doing an activity you love and use filters to darken your face just enough. If you really want to increase the number of hits you get, you can also go the humorous route which is a proven way to get more attention.
5. Dress for the Sex You Want
Have you ever heard the phrase “dress for the job you want, not the job you have?” Well, the same logic goes for sex. If you’re heading out on a date or anywhere you see the potential to meet a new partner, make sure you are ready for anything. That means shower, shave, manscape, put on a matching bra and panties – whatever you do when you are expecting to get some action. This will give you a confidence boost which is very attractive to potential sexual partners, and it helps put out the vibe that you are ready for anything.
Jacqueline Backman is a Sexpert at AdultFriendFinder, one of the largest adult casual dating sites with over 100 million registered users worldwide.